wake up

Once in a while, you see yourself as the world does, and then you wonder how you were so clueless and naive all along. In that moment of shock and self-doubt and -loathing, it's hard to remember that maybe a rude awakening is a good thing. It's an opportunity to grow and change. To admit to your character flaws. To be constantly reminded of the enormous blessing of friends and family who see through you and know your ugliest faults... and graciously accept you anyway.